Learn How To Deepthroat

Let’s say you would like to learn how to deepthroat or you would like your partner to learn the technique. First I would highly recommend you use the following steps in order because this is the way I learned it for myself. Of course if you have some experience already then you can skip steps one and two.

But I believe it’s handy to build up the technique, otherwise face fucking can be too overwhelming for the newcomer. It is possible that a bad experience would scare you away from ever trying it again. So slowly but surely is the key here and that goes for both the giver and the receiver!

1. Getting started

Let’s start by buying a nice flexible dildo or maybe you have one already you can use. It’s very important that the dildo is flexible to avoid unnecessary injury. Now the goal of this step is to get used to having something inside your throat. I actually bought the dildo I use to practice with when I was 16 after a tip from a friend of mine. Remember to try to be relaxed and don’t overdo it. Just enjoy what you’re doing; it is fun practicing it for yourself and imagining what you can do with this new found skill in the future! 😉

The Dildo
You will need something to deep throat. So I highly recommend a flexible, near lifelike dildo such as the one in the picture. If you can get one that has the “realistic skin” or “realistic feel,” it will make the practice much more realistic for you!

The dildo will act more or less like a real cock when you try to deepthroat it. I suggest you take a length no less than 6 inches to start with.

I used a double dildo like the one on the left and the one Heather is using in the video. I will soon place a link to a web shop where they sell cheap but good ones for around $30.

The average mouth is about 3.5 inches deep, and the average penis length is about 5.5 inches, so even with a 6 inch dildo, you should be okay. I wanted to make sure I could handle anything that came my way, though, and elected to go with a longer one. 😛

Saliva
Make sure your dildo is well lubricated before you try to push it into the back of your throat. I use my own saliva. You will have to spend some time with it in your mouth to get it all moist and juiced up.

I prefer not to use any lubrication, since this is something you shouldn’t get used to. If you are with a man, you may not always have the lube with you; your saliva is the best lube for deep throat. There are lubrication products out there to help you relax your throat a bit.

This might help you the first time but afterwards you’ll get so used to it, it will become sort of an addiction something that you need to rely on. It might take some more time to learn without these numbing types of lube, but the end result will be much better!

Practice
I had no boyfriend when I bought this dildo and it took me quite some time to learn the technique. I use to practice every day in the evening for a few minutes. After about 1 month I was able to shove it right inside my throat.

So don’t get unmotivated if you don’t succeed the first time! I think after about 2 or 2 1/2 months I could get the dildo down my throat quite easily. I remember the first day when I tried, I really thought what the fuck I am doing. I can never do this! But really trust me, you can do it.

It helped me to sometimes talk with somebody about it. I had an online friend that I shared my progress with. It’s a good idea to share your experiences this can give you the spirit to go on.

Conclusion
Just try it, I never regretted it and every time I deep throat or face fuck a guy now, I’m so happy I learnt to do this back then! You can do it with you partner next to you, but I think this may not be so helpful, you might overstretch yourself trying to impress him. So you lose the pleasure of doing it. I preferred doing it on my own. Imagine if you can do it after 2 month, the present you can give to your boyfriend 😉

This is a nice video of Heather of ideepthroat where she shows how you can do it, she's very experienced so don’t feel bad if you can’t do it like her!

Steps 1 and 2 are coming soon so watch this space. They cover increasing the speed of your deepthroat and then actually trying deepthroat for real!

X Kim